We often underestimate our strength.......because human life in modern time is rather stable....we took many things for granted....
I used to rely too much on my spouse, until we had a tiff over something important..
I was appalled by his behavior and lack of respect for my wish....and decided to be as independent as much possible..
Before this incident, I used to take his help even in opening the child-proof cap of my vitamin bottle...and his driving for reaching to and from my workplace...
But with few attempts I could open the cap...and started walking to and from work, even at night (since I don't have a car yet)....
I had forgotten how I used to travel alone across the country often changing multiple trains and planes..hauling my luggages...making friends all the way.
Dependent status in foreign country made me weak......
I am thankful for high academic credentials and a job....otherwise, it could me utter misery..
I ask people, especially girls to be as independent as possible....
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